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Tag Archives: actuallyautistic
committed
So the latest hand-wringing over smartphones is that they remove the need for people to memorize things when using the GPS function for directions; that people don’t actually see and commit to memory their surroundings any more. And by people, … Continue reading
Posted in Book Two - Mind, Setting 3
Tagged actuallyautistic, anger, frustration, futility, neurotypical, signs
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what happened
I swear I used to have more energy. I know I did. I never had as much as other people, but I definitely had more than I have had over the last decade or so (I’m in my late forties). … Continue reading
Posted in Book Two - Mind, Setting 3
Tagged actuallyautistic, Aspergers, autism, masking, normal, spoon, work
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melted
When I was planning this trip, I thought I was psychologically prepared for the higher-than-usual amount of change and uncertainty that accompanies a vacation to a new locale and involves a group of family members, two of which are capable … Continue reading
Posted in Book Two - Mind, Setting 3
Tagged actuallyautistic, ASD, Aspergers, autism, meltdown, self care
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the default myth
Photo by Markus Spiske One of my opportunities as a professional editor for primary research articles and dissertations is they are often primers on subject matter on which I am not an expert. A dissertation I edited last year introduced … Continue reading
Posted in Book Two - Mind, Setting 3
Tagged actuallyautistic, appearance, BlackLivesMatter, effort, faith, systemic racism
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normal
Photo by Austin Chan Yes, I am usually unqualified to write a post entitled “normal.” But occasionally, my inability to assimilate emotion and information, something that has been ascribed to my autism, is useful, maybe even necessary. This is one … Continue reading
Posted in Book Two - Mind, Setting 3
Tagged actuallyautistic, ASD, Aspergers, autism, coping, self love
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is like
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Tagged actuallyautistic, appearance, Aspergers, autism
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what doesn’t kill me (isn’t going to work)
Surprising no one, my first application for disability was denied. In researching next steps for an appeal, I discovered that one of the things the committee considers, although not in so many words, is whether my disability will kill me. … Continue reading
Posted in Book Two - Mind, Setting 3
Tagged actuallyautistic, anger, appearance, Aspergers, autism, disability
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finally
Finally, a neurotypical experience that mimics autism: ‘Zoom fatigue’ This article discusses how taxing social interaction is over video platforms because of challenges in interpreting unspoken information, which may be obscured or absent due to teleconferencing platform issues. Critically, it … Continue reading
not like this
Photo by Laurent Perren on Unsplash This is not what I wanted. High-functioning autistics like me who live alone and work from home fight a constant battle against expected levels of socialization. We have to self-limit because of how exhausting … Continue reading
Posted in Book Two - Mind, Setting 3
Tagged actuallyautistic, appearance, ASD, Aspergers, autism, doubt, fear
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Interview on LearnFromAutistics.com
Click the above to read Christine’s interview on the Learn From Autistics website about accommodations , autism coping strategies, and self-care.
Posted in Book Two - Mind, Setting 3
Tagged accommodations, actuallyautistic, appearance, masking, self care
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